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Student Practicum Opportunities at Your Story Counselling & Affordable Therapy York Region
Your Story Counselling offers unique practicum opportunities for student therapists across Ontario through our Affordable Therapy York Region initiative. With partnerships at leading universities, double the required supervision hours, and hands-on experience with diverse clients, we create a supportive environment for future clinicians. Learn more about our placement cycles, supervision model, and how to apply.
Judy Lui
5 days ago4 min read


The Hidden Costs of Motherhood: Mental Health, Single Parenting, and Finding Support
Parenthood is often celebrated as a joyful and fulfilling role, but the hidden struggles are rarely spoken about. Whether you are a single parent or feel like one in your co-parenting arrangement, the emotional and mental toll can be immense. This article explores the unseen costs of parenthood, the impact on mental health, and ways therapy can help—even when your co-parent or spouse is not willing to join.
Judy Lui
Sep 296 min read


How to Find Affordable, Culturally Competent Therapy in Ontario and York Region
Accessing therapy that is both affordable and culturally sensitive can be challenging. This article explores options for low-cost therapy in Ontario and York Region, including directories like Healing in Colour, Althea Therapy, Open Path, and Affordable Therapy York Region. Learn tips for selecting a therapist, understanding supervision for student therapists, and questions to ask during consultations. Whether you’re seeking support for anxiety, depression, or trauma, cultura
Judy Lui
Sep 235 min read


Will Insurance Cover My Therapy? A Guide to Direct Billing & Coverage in Ontario (2025 Update)
If you’ve ever wondered, “Will my insurance cover therapy?”—you’re not alone. The good news? More insurance providers than ever are now offering direct billing for psychotherapy, making it easier and more affordable to access mental health care.
Judy Lui
Sep 155 min read


RP vs. RSW: What's the Difference—and How Do I Choose the Right Therapist?
If you're exploring therapy for the first time, you might find yourself wondering: What’s the difference between a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) and a Registered Social Worker (RSW)? Does one have more experience? Is one better suited to certain issues? And—most importantly—which one is right for you?
Judy Lui
Sep 86 min read


Spotting Communication Red Flags in Relationships — A Guide Inspired by Gottman’s Research
Poor communication is one of the most common reasons couples seek therapy. In this article, we explore the key "red flags" in communication, based on renowned psychologist Dr. John Gottman’s research, including the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. We’ll also share how couples therapy can help address these patterns and build stronger, healthier relationships. If you’re seeking couples therapy in Markham or Vaughan, our team at Your Story Counselling is here to help.
Judy Lui
Aug 185 min read


What Is Attachment Theory & Therapy? Understanding Your Emotional Bonds and How Healing Happens
Attachment theory explains how our early relationships shape the way we connect with others as adults. Whether you struggle with trust, intimacy, or emotional regulation, understanding your attachment style can offer powerful insights. Therapy focused on attachment helps heal relational wounds and build healthier connections. At Your Story Counselling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy to support your unique attachment journey.
Judy Lui
Jul 284 min read


Your Story Counselling Recognized Nationally for Excellence in Inclusive Mental Health Care
Your Story Counselling, a trauma-informed and culturally responsive psychotherapy clinic serving York Region and beyond, has been recognized on the national stage. Named a finalist in the 2024 RBC Canadian Women Entrepreneur Awards under the Micro-Business category, the clinic’s work in building accessible, affirming, and anti-oppressive mental health care is gaining long-overdue recognition. Learn how Your Story Counselling is changing how therapy is delivered—one story at a
Judy Lui
Jul 214 min read


Should I See a Therapist Online or In-Office? Understanding What’s Right for You
Not sure whether to book an in-person or online therapy session? You're not alone. The choice between virtual and in-office therapy depends on your comfort, access, and clinical needs. This article breaks down the benefits of each approach—and explains why choosing a local clinic like Your Story Counselling means you don’t have to choose just one.
Judy Lui
Jul 144 min read


The Three Types of Sex: Understanding Intimacy, Connection, & Pleasure
Sex isn’t just about physical connection—with our bodies, partners, or identity, it's layered. This updated guide explores three types of sex—relational, passionate, and solo/experiential—to help you understand your own needs and patterns. Learn how to foster intimacy, keep excitement alive, and feel good in your own skin. Therapy-trained insights included.
Judy Lui
Jul 94 min read


How to Find LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in York Region
Finding an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in York Region is essential for members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community seeking mental health care that is safe, inclusive, and culturally competent. This guide highlights how to find affirming clinicians, the values of Your Story Counselling’s anti-oppressive stance, and where to find community support through organizations like Rainbow Health Ontario, ACAS, AQUA, and Pflag York Region.
Judy Lui
Jul 74 min read


3 Spring Self-Care Activities That Don’t Break the Bank (Plus One That Can Change Your Life)
Spring is the season of renewal—and what better time to take a deep breath, check in with yourself, and prioritize self-care? Contrary to popular belief, self-care doesn't have to be expensive. In fact, some of the most effective practices for your mental well-being are low-cost, accessible, and deeply nourishing.
Here are three budget-friendly self-care ideas to help you bloom this season—plus a bonus one that could transform your emotional health long-term.
Judy Lui
Jun 94 min read


ADHD in Relationships: When a Third Partner Is Invisible—but Powerful
When you're in a relationship, you're not just navigating the needs, emotions, and communication styles of two people—sometimes, there's a third invisible influence in the mix: ADHD.
Whether diagnosed or not, ADHD can play a powerful and often misunderstood role in intimate relationships. And when one or both partners are affected, it can feel like ADHD has pulled up a chair at the table, making itself part of every conversation, conflict, and connection.
Judy Lui
May 195 min read


Conflict-Free Holidays: How to manage Family Dynamics with Grace
Navigate holiday stress with grace! Learn tips to manage family dynamics, set boundaries, and create meaningful connections this season.
Judy Lui
Dec 12, 20243 min read


Heal Your Holiday Connections: How CBT and Attachment Theory Can Transform Your Relationships
Discover how CBT and attachment theory can deepen your relationships this holiday season. Build trust, heal bonds, and connect meaningfully.
Judy Lui
Dec 4, 20244 min read


How to Improve your relationship: Understanding through Attachment Styles
Relationships are central to our well-being, but they can also be one of the most challenging aspects of our lives. Have you ever...
Judy Lui
Nov 19, 20245 min read


Moving in: How to grow intimacy when living together
"Moving in? Keep the spark alive by communicating openly, balancing personal space, and adding romance to daily routines for a strong bond."
Judy Lui
Nov 13, 20245 min read


Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Coping with the Impact of Shorter Days on Mental Health
As November ushers in cooler temperatures and shorter days, many of us in Canada begin to feel the impact of seasonal changes on our...
Judy Lui
Nov 5, 20244 min read


The Benefits of Working with a Psychotherapist in your Area - Working with a Markham Counsellor
If you are looking for mental health support, consider the benefits of working with a Markham psychotherapist who understands your community
Judy Lui
Aug 6, 20243 min read


How to navigate and overcome Trauma and Addiction
Trauma can affect how your brain regulates emotions and decision-making.
Judy Lui
Jul 2, 20244 min read
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